Who Do You Need to Be?

It is not about if you can be 'this person' or 'that person'. You can be anything you put into your mind but it is about how much energy it takes to be the person you think you should be...

Your natural energy drivers are a portal to live a life that fulfills you✨

It is never about ‘if you can be this or that’, you can be anything you want but the question is, are those personas, and goals aligned with your nature? Are you meeting your core needs while living them?

Remember your childhood, before the world told you how you should behave, what is good, and what is bad, you already had some characteristics that showed up at an early age. It is not an ‘identity’ but your motivation to do certain things and not liking others. Some activities gave you energy, and some of them left you feeling drained. Maybe you mostly enjoyed being quiet or loved socializing, and always needed something new. Maybe you were a natural leader or showrunner, maybe you mostly cared for others before yourself, felt sensitive… Any of them is equally possible, not better or worse for any gender.

This is what I am talking about when I say ‘nature’. It is expressed purely before all the conditioning and traumas happen and then can ‘change’ along the way.

Can it?

The research and results show that it actually doesn’t change. Regardless of how many years pass, conditioning or ‘i should be this way’ and trials of living or acting differently (consciously or unconsciously) don’t change the core characteristics but only leave you feeling confused with low energy and even depressed.

For that reason, I believe it is really important to be connected to that inner child and search for the answers if you are feeling confused about some of the aspects of your nature and needs.

One last note, I look at this research as a very valuable tool for understanding and expanding human capacity, inner peace and self-awareness. One can change -it is inevitable, one can be anything, every second we grow and our beliefs also change, that’s what makes life interesting. However, understanding the human body, and the structure of our brain while opening our soul to every possibility can create a valuable change in our lives toward fulfillment and practical high energy✨

Much love,

Aslıhan